I’m Barb, wife and parent of four adult children.
When one of my sons was fourteen, he confessed to watching pornography. I was shocked, mad, and ashamed. I questioned my parenting skills. The stigma surrounding his behavior kept me from talking with others, so I suffered in silence. The pain and emotional turmoil left me feeling empty and alone.
Since that time, I’ve learned a thing or two about pornography, screens, online relationships, hookup culture, grooming, human trafficking, and the teenage brain. My experience combatting this monumental problem and my desire for no other parent to feel alone in this battle, led me to create this site. It’s a place for parents, grandparents, educators, and leaders to find support, encouragement, and practical tips for parenting in this digital world. Oh, and HOPE.
I assure you, no matter the circumstance, there is hope. Your child’s story isn’t over. And neither is yours.
A Little Bit About My Credentials, Availability, and Work
I am the author of Sexpectations: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships. I am a certified Sexual Risk Avoidance Specialist, a certified mental health coach, and have completed extensive research on pornography and its effects on individuals and society. As Lead Facilitator at E3 Family Solutions, Inc., I equip youth at local schools to avoid risky behaviors and make healthy choices.
Years ago, I was trained to disciple others and have counseled teens and adults for over twenty years. These experiences help me aid parents in understanding their emotional responses and discovering their next steps to healing and parenting their children.
I’m a frequent guest on podcasts and speak at conferences, retreats, churches, and community events in-person and online. Need a speaker for your next event? Check out the speaking page!
As a writer, I guest post for blogs, am published in magazines, and am represented by Blythe Daniel of The Blythe Daniel Agency. Need a guest for your podcast or blog? Contact me here.
I love writing, photography, playing games with my family, and exploring Florida. I’m an empty-nester and enjoy long, romantic walks on the beach with my pastor. Did I mention he’s my husband?
How Can You Learn, Connect, and Stay Up-to-Date?
I’m all about education and communication. If we stay educated, we are more equipped and better prepared to communicate with our children. Take these steps to stay in-the-know.
1 – Subscribe below and receive two FREE resources: 7 STEPS AFTER YOUR CHILD SEES PORN and QUESTIONS FOR PERSONAL REFLECTION AND GROUP DISCUSSION to accompany Sexpectations. You will also receive blog updates.
2 – Look around. Check out the resources page and blog posts. Ask a question. Make a comment. Send me a private email. I’d love to hear your story and offer you hope.
3 – Connect with me on social media. Want to stay in the loop and get quick tidbits of advice and inspiration? Connect through one or more social media outlets below.
Thanks for being here. ~ Barb
